Her many hats
Ellany is a Success Coach / Lifestyle Mentor / Psychotherapist / 100+ Countries Digital Nomad / Shenanigan Enabler / Co-founder of RAWFEM / Daring Way Facilitator trained by Brené Brown / Co-Author / Antigravity Yoga Instructor / Digital Wizard.
One of the Hardest moments in your life?
Dad passing away shockingly suddenly while I was on country 3 of 16 of Exquisite Freedom tour, the biggest adventure / business campaign of my life!
How did you overcome it?
1. One of my besties Mainey happened to be already en route to meet me in Bali 2 days after the shocking news. She comforted me, helped me howl my grief at the full moon, and burn away the past.
2. When I was summoned home to sell my dad's estate, another bestie Maria arrived with angels (Jeff and Sam) to help me move 60 tons of pack-rat crap so we could sell it under 30 days so mom wasn't homeless and destitute.
Roots & Home
Born and raised in Canada, Taiwanese descent, moved to 64 different cities, now living in Spain
Instatrust: ability to create instant sense of trust, safety and being understood
How to release anxiety and feel joy
Top 3 Influencers
Brené Brown, Caroline Myss, Marianne Williamson
Most impactful book/podcast
'Refuse to Choose' by Barbara Sher
Makes her Laugh Every Time
She used to be scared of...
Shining too bright therefore losing "friends"
F*ck this shit moment
Had a flash-forward of a miserable cookie-cutter life, left narcissistic ex-partner, moved half way around the world, started my first business.
Advice to 13 year old self
The people who criticize you don't understand or love you. Go find those who do, there are lots of them!
Best advice received
These mountains that you are carrying, you were only supposed to climb.
About her business
What is your business about?
Sametuary, a sanctuary for superwomen to put down their cape and tell the truth
Coaching, group masterminds, retreats, e-courses, referral commission, real-estate, low risk bank investments
Hardest part about Being a Trailblazer?
No role model to follow. I've been searching for 2 years for a female mentor: makes six-figures or more, quiet, of colour, feminine... still searching....
Best part about Being a Trailblazer?
I can't really fail at anything... because everything I try is new and never been done before.
Where do you get support? Or do you do it all yourself?
From my business partner Anne, flatmate Maria, six-figure business mentor, relationship coach, psychotherapist, virtual assistant, branding & marketing strategist, photographer, videographer, Simplero.com, housekeeper, book editor, personal chef, accountant, driver, travel agent, best friends, entrepreneurial sisters
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