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There is a freedom at the intersection of: entrepreneurship, enlightenment and enchantment. The path of Grace, lined with 22,000+ documented moments of daily gratitude (1999-2018), lead me here. Enjoy the daily wisdom funnies, especially the present day commentaries!

54 moons ago...
Aww he made a reservation. Sweet words: It was a real treat for me too Ella, the food was great but your company was even better! Thank you for spending time with me, I hope I get to see you again soon. <3

60 moons ago...
I'm so glad X said Y isn't that good looking. I found him gorgeous. More for me lol!

8 moons ago...
So, so, so, so, so, so, so, so proud of myself, another pattern broken!!! Said no to date with X and NOT opening door to Y. NO! OMG and the best part: I’m NOT sorry!!! I have nothing to be sorry for. Have you seen the flurry of love, empowerment and activity on my Fb and the dollars chiming in to my bank account? I have NOTHING to be sorry for. For all of womankind, NO! No more sorry's, no more indebtedness to men just because we are women. No more. #boom #final #wisdom

20 moons ago...
Proud of self for not cramming in free walking tour just because it's super sunny and tomorrow might not be. Don't do it because it's free (that's still vestige of cheap Asian scarcity mentality). Rest. Sleep. I feel tired. And I want to forward my work, while I have fun!!! Not just have fun.

7 moons ago...
Oh the joy, the magnanimous joy of using Identity Matrix on client S! To have these powerful tools at my fingertips for my clients because I've been through it, survived it, and went on to thrive. So grateful! #femininepower

7 moons ago...
Interesting that the more rested I am and the more parasympathetic system is in charge, the more effortless I am in showing up, online and in life. Just naturally effortlessly. No deadline pressure nor "have to's".

37 moons ago...
Interesting that I didn't feel like doing the travel roadmap. But after lunch and an episode on Netflix, I suddenly felt like it and got it done in an hour. Swift and easy! Hmm... Space before particles, indeed!

71 moons ago...
Mentor was praising focus and focus and focus, as super achiever asset. I have it!

60 moons ago...
Aaaaaaahhhh I did sooo well on team call. For the first time in my life, I didn't need external validation. I'm sooo proud of myself for being me, for leading, for infusing my enthusiasm into the team at large. Woooooo! What a high! #entrepreneurship #growing

46 moons ago...
Bliss memory: Quad biked all over Santorini, in shorts, wind in my hair, flip flops on my feet, seas all around, vineyards and winding roads. Zoom zoom! Just missing a turtle shell and banana peel for a full on Mario Kart party, lol! Sunny when we were at the beach, cloudy when we were riding. Perfection, Universe does love me! #globetrotter

8 moons ago...
Wow if I had freaked out, gone into my fear, or gotten swept up by client's fear, then I would not have done her (or myself) the best service. I AM resilient, dang! Wow. #selfacknowledgement

27 moons ago...
The love, it's always there. I just don't see it. I forget. That love is so powerful, it really can move mountains. Within and outside of myself. #wisdom

37 moons ago...
So glad I stuck to my guns in blogging about my thoughts rather than chatting to X. This work I'm doing, it's important. I'm willing to put it before small talk.

53 moons ago...
Giving self time/space, choosing to eat lunch before getting down to work. #selfcare

30 moons ago...
Today, I have all the tools to show vulnerability, to cry when needed, to process emotions, to let go of anger and resentment, to grief, to surrender, to be strong, without superhero armour. I'm living my life NOT as my dad wanted, NOT to HIS image, but to mine: living fully, with wild abandon, into wholeness and enlightenment. I'll forever do what feels RIGHT to me, not what I'm expected to do or should do to look good in the eyes of others. #epic #enlightenment

34 moons ago...
Imagine filling an entire stadium, Ella. Having an big 'ol team to manage every detail for you. All you gotta do is show up, be seen and live brave. Fill that stadium, Ella! #selftalk

84 moons ago...
Be super transparent like X, could be a great skill

52 moons ago...
When it's the right person, the relationship just feels so easy.

9 moons ago...
Loved watching the Canadian tenors be surprised by special appearance by Celine Dion on Oprah. They sang their signature song Hallelujah... made me cry, so moving.

47 moons ago...
Maybe school experience of losing friends lead me to choose love over friends because I survived it once... and will again. And the friends who make it through to the end are the ones worth keeping. #wisdom

17 moons ago...
Being in Cuba practising my Spanish with Sonia, just speaking broken Spanish like a guy would, it feels nice. No more "girls must be perfect before they can speak" trauma. Maybe it's the precursor to moving to Spain. Squeeealy fear. OMG.
[Commentary: Sure enough, 2 months later, I moved to Spain. Aaaaaahh! #manifestation]

31 moons ago...
Oh my word, Japanese people are polite!!! Holy shit!!! And everything is sooo orderly!!! Ticket guy bowed to us before he stepped off the bus. Wow. I bet their culture is conditioned deep with filial piety :S

Women who are free will set the world free.

Freedom on!

xo, Ella

Ellany LeaAUTHOR • Hi, I'm Ella, founder of Guide to Grace. Having lived in 100+ countries, I invite you to freedom at the intersection of: entrepreneurship, enlightenment, and enchantmentFollow