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There is a freedom at the intersection of: entrepreneurship, enlightenment and enchantment. The path of Grace, lined with 22,000+ documented moments of daily gratitude (1999-2018), lead me here. Enjoy the daily wisdom funnies, especially the present day commentaries!

28 moons ago...
A quiet church all to myself, a walk along the old city fort walls [Dubrovnik], getting clear that I don't want a 30-day in-person program. I'm an introvert, I want peace, not rah-rah-rah.

11 moons ago...
OMG all this LoA work, Feminine Power course, and manifesting from future feeling: X will arrive and Y will depart, it all unfolded perfectly!! Won't have an overbooked house!! Will have peace and tranquillity. Will have one friend to focus on at a time. Woo hoo.

81 moons ago...
1.5hr phone call with J about play-by-play of her special night with A. Sharing with her my "exceptional life partner" list and not be judged or influenced to settle for. <3 <3 <3

40 moons ago...
I don't need a discussion around this. She was there for me at a time when I needed her.  I risked relationship and was there for her when she needed a place to stay. But it's not a relationship I need to keep. You bet, I can learn something from it. But I chose not to keep this relationship. I'm good. I'm happy :D And that's good enough. #lettinggo #surrender

14 moons ago...
X teaches financial freedom but she isn't free. She keeps talking about how exhausted she is. And the dark circle around her eyes are on every social media photo. Yes, we sacrifice for our dreams, but not at the price of exhaustion. Hmm... unfollowing her. That's not how I will build my empire and prosperity. #reverserolemodel

62 moons ago...
Angela catch up chat and impromptu homemade dinner at her place <3

26 moons ago...
F*ckers, no way! My credit card's travel insurance covered my lost dental retainers!!! Wow, thank you, Universe.
[Commentary: Woah. I totally forgot this happened. I remember the sting of the loss and having to replace them, but totally forgot it got covered by insurance. Maybe it was so unusual and so swift of an insurance claim process that my mind deleted it from memory? It wants to ensure I only remember the "work like an ox" and "success through suffering and drudgery" memories?!? Hmm... interesting! #enlightenment #remembering]

81 moons ago...
X betrayed and left me every time I cried. So residue is that I specifically tell people I'm a crier beforehand... so they don't leave me.
[Commentary: Oh this is so, so sad. And so, so fully healed now. My reservoir of tears is massively larger than most and it has been emptied. I've never felt so good empty. And I haven't cried in a while, phew.]

7 moons ago...
OMG feels sooo good to be in Malta, with Western conveniences and ATM tap card and not have to haggle for prices. Oh sweet Jesus. Happy that I decided not to scuba dive. Will just bliss out on sleep and food!!!

58 moons ago...
Sooo proud of myself for expressing myself fully!!! So proud. I went, "Hey X. I feel really disrespected. I don't do well with non-responsiveness. What do you think?" OMG I feel so good. There won't likely be a next time, but for future reference, be clear. Be direct. No matter how busy you may be, there's always time to be clear and to be kind. Sooo proud of myself for saying that!!! And Whatsapp'ed Tia to share #empowerment and reclaiming of self with her! We co-created an anchor, a conscious memory of this moment, in pink glasses. #power

24 moons ago...
Even though X isn't a Level 3 listener, she reminds me not to be hard on myself. Bless her.

18 moons ago...
Well, I asked X if I could stay with her. I'm not attached to outcome. We shall see. At least I did my part, at least I asked. #lawofdetachment
[Commentary: Hehehe, how silly to even need to be detached. Of course X would have me stay wit her. She looooooved having me stay. I could have stayed even longer if I wanted!!! Hmm... is there such a thing as permanent self-worth. I have far more self-worth today than I had a decade ago, but it still goes sometimes. I forget sometimes. Hmm... interesting.]

40 moons ago...
I get to lie down, rest, snuggled up in bed between coaching calls. Oh the freedom. Oh the bliss! #lifestylefreedom

62 moons ago...
I felt his loneliness and I don't see the wow. I do not have to date him any further. 
[Commentary: Oh the volume of times women settle for less and I want to shout to them and to myself in the past: have some standards, girl!! Have some non-rock-bottom standards!! Sigh.]

21 moons ago...
Somatic Experiencing is working. First day in a long time where I have this get 'er done stamina, focus and most importantly drive. I'm thawing, I'm thawing!! OMG what a celebration!!! What a momentous occasion!! #enchantment #healing #ptsd

36 moons ago...
LOL! Thanks to "Men who Love Bitches" book, I shifted to my empowered bitch. You want your ex, go have 'em!! I am worthy of sooo much more, sooo much better!!! #enlightenment #empowerment

2 moons ago...
Aaawww. J buys his second hand clothes based on how soft they are for me to borrow and wear. #squishy

14 moons ago...
Wow, Wikipedia link lead to Fuffpo article, which transformed into '104 life lessons' e-book, which morphed into '35 secrets' e-book. Turned life lessons for the masses to freedom lessons for overachievers. So completely unexpected twists and turns! #awe #enchantment
[Commentary: I think the Universe was constantly testing me to learn the lesson that the 'how' is not up to me. That the best creations come from where they come from at the time they're supposed to come, not from me forcing the outcome and suffering when the outcome doesn't appear how *I* wanted it. Oy. What a lesson!!]

57 moons ago...
Investment payoff: spent a few hrs with X, invested in right software and equipment, got given a flyer ad space, a key to the studio and a passcode for weekend use. Yay! OMG OMG OMG. Put in upfront investment for lifetime pay-off. Deep in our geek, laughing and playing with X. Both OCD, both perfectionist. What a pair we make! #sisterhood

69 moons ago...
Anastacia is referring people to me because she had such a great experience of being held on this branding journey #testimonial

23 moons ago...
Who wants to hear about my date? I do, I do, X and Y raised their hands. X pointed out: good on ya for pulling away on the kiss and leave him wanting more. And Y and I facetimed. These are all people who are coming to the top with me when I'm influential.
[Commentary: Hehehe, I'm already influential, they are already at the top with me. I just didn't see it, none of us did.]

16 moons ago...
I'm experiencing Predictable Magic like LA coined and Karen reminded me of today #enchantment

With infinite grace, freedom on!

xo, Ella

Ellany LeaAUTHOR • Hi, I'm Ella, founder of Guide to Grace. I invite you to join me for an exquisite freedom at the intersection of: entrepreneurship, enlightenment, and enchantmentFollow