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Clients and students were asked...

What were your top two 'aha' moments of greatest learning?


When I have time off, I can access my genius, I can create a sustainable online business that is authentic to ME.

That it's not my job to grow other people. WHOA!!! Some blocks are too big, too fire-y to be meditated, breathed, tapped, positive thought out of existence. Sometimes they have to be defaced, torn and burned!!! Then the tap behind the block is free to flow.

Applying the "busyness tracker" and boundaries (SO GOOD!). Understanding and applying resonance in business and in life.

That I need value play time and don't have enough of it or make time for it.

"I am a healer", Thursday morning drive to work 2017!!! My "freedom declaration", Thursday evening 2018, coaching with Ella on Zoom!!!

1. Realizing that I can start living my ideal week, now. 2. Realizing what sits at the core of my identity and how my Perfectionist was trying so hard to protect it, and how it was prolonging my own suffering. I was prolonging my own suffering?!

That I have all the answers inside of me (from sensory deprivation exercise and inner sage guided meditation). The "parts work", where I identified that angry part of me driving the bus, and understood how I can change drivers whenever I want to.

To know my worth, that I am worth the service I am providing. If I don’t do this, no one is going to come and do it for me. Not that I didn't want to do it, but sometimes I lost the stamina. Now I know how to do what I need to do in order for it to happen.

I found peace as soon as I accepted where I was on my own journey and surrendered to the process, instead of fighting and pushing through. I started to enjoy myself more, I felt way less anxious about growing my business.

Two things: 1. From the coaching, the phrase "just because you can, doesn't mean you should", which you used multiple times, as I really needed it. This will have a lasting impact on me. 2. The difference between self-care and selfishness, because it is important to also take care of myself and to put my own needs first some of the time.

That I am a master manifestor of Miracles! And that I have not just abundance to share with my clients, but overflow.

Stop glorifying business or work and take a break. Accept that I may need more rest or breaks than most people and I don't have to apologise for that or justify it! It is possible to move from getting paid per hour to a more passive income model. Compared to a year ago I am so much closer! It is not just an idea now. 

Just because I can, doesn't mean I should!” and “If I had it all my way, ______________." I hear these two phrases in my head all the time now ;)

I don’t know what the future holds, but I know what I bring to the future. And that today will end and tomorrow will be there and I decide what to let go of and bring with me.

When I saw my roadmap and realized that there really is some form of method to my madness! And that perhaps it really is going to help others. Also, I realized that I am still struggling with the concept of monetary compensation for what I intend to do. It’s an interesting saboteur! I observe that it’s happening and my psyche will figure it out!

I only need to create iteration #1 of my giveaway! It doesn't have to be perfect. It’s a model I can use and re-use everywhere! And improve on it as I go!

When I start a sentence with "I don't know" that I am telling myself a story, which makes me trust less in what I actually do know or what I have to say. Relief and confidence in being able to say no to what I don't want and yes to what I do, in relationship to everything!

My perfectionist and hyperachieving saboteurs are bitches and sneaky. When I get here, it feels great to own myself, my work and what I want. Courage = vulnerability... it is now a mantra.

It seemed that I have found something that I am excited about, but at the same time I am avoiding it because it looks difficult.

Realizing that I could save all this information for when I have more time and space to upgrade my business and realizing that I need to adjust my vision to working with kids.

With infinite grace, freedom on!

xo, Ella

Ellany LeaAUTHOR • Hi, I'm Ella, founder of Guide to Grace. I invite you to join me for an exquisite freedom at the intersection of: entrepreneurship, enlightenment, and enchantmentFollow